Going to Jail in China…

Going to Jail in China…

Matthew: So, foreigners in China are often
lauded as exotic, you know, bringers of new
information. They’re like seen as the outsiders
that are very, very interesting to the average
person because China’s a pretty homogenous
society, right? Now, oftentimes, you can see
the general opinion of foreigners in, like,
conversations with taxi drivers, and if you
get in a taxi in China, they’ll often ask
you, well, pretty much every time, they’ll
ask you where you’re from. Basically, you
might get a little bit of a big head because
you’ll think that Chinese people absolutely
love people from your country because they’ll
say things like, wow, Americans are so good.
They’re way better than us Chinese because
they’re so rich. Oh, you’re from Germany.
Hitler was a good man.
They’ve said this.
I’m serious.
And all these kind of generalizations
about your country which are usually positive,
but it’s a slippery slope because, actually,
if there’s an altercation or something happens
where it’s China against another country or
China against the rest of the world, then
everything can turn on you, and I’ve wanted
to tell this story for a really long time.
I wanted to make a proper video about how
I went to jail in China over a woman.
Guys, this literally…I’m not even joking. This
entire meal, which is this delicious pork
belly and rice and vegetables and you have
pork blood soup, might seem unappetizing to
you but I love this stuff. This is, like,
US$3. So, it was Valentine’s Day but it was
Chinese Valentine’s Day, am I right, person
behind the camera? So, it’s Chinese Valentine’s
Day and I was out with my wife. We went out
to eat some Japanese food actually and we
got into a taxi. Taxi driver was normal, countryside
taxi dude, and we actually had forgotten to
bring cash. We explained to him, hey, stop
at our house real quick. My wife’s going to
go grab her purse. Then we’ll continue on
to the next destination. 200 meters. Yeah,
it was like a 200 meter taxi ride. So, he
goes, okay. He agrees to all these terms and,
basically, when he goes to the house, he stops
the meter and he’s like, yeah, just pay and
get out, and I was like, well, I already told
you we have to go get the money first. We’ve
got to go get my wife’s purse. So, my wife
gets out of the car and she goes to walk into
the apartment complex and he goes, give me
money, and he starts swearing and screaming
at us. I’m like, you need to calm down, and
I wanted to go protect my wife because he
just got out of the car. So, I follow him
and he stops my wife. We believe he physically
touched you, right? He grabbed you or something,
and turns you around, and he goes, give me
my effing money, screaming at my wife, and
I get furious obviously, but I look at Vivi
and she looks like the fury of hell, like,
had just been bestowed upon her, like Satan’s
spirit came into her eyes, and she whipped
out at her camera. It was my camera, right,
and you started filming him, right, and you
go, I dare you to say that again, because
what he just said before that was, I’m going
to beat the hell out of you. I’m going to
kill you. Didn’t he say that, right? I’ll
beat you to death is what he said to my wife.
So, right before I jump in, she whips out
the camera and starts filming him, and she
goes, say that again to the camera, and he
says it again. He repeats himself. He says
I’m going to beat you to death, and he slaps
my wife in the face, and slaps the camera
out of her hand, and I don’t…obviously I
know what happened to me, obviously I got
very angry. So I did what any normal man would
do if his wife had just been struck by a man
and I punched him in the face. I don’t want
to make this sound worse than it actually
is but I have to be totally honest and it
was a very strong punch and the man’s face
was very soft. I feel like he did not receive
the nutrition he should have as a child because,
literally, he melted into the crowd like a
pile of ooze after I hit him. I’ve never been
in a situation where I hit someone and they
literally just…they collapse into a pile.
So, he’s laying there, and as all this is
going on, the most interesting thing is…this
is something that’s very Chinese. If something
happens, like a car accident or people get
into a fight or there’s an argument or the
cops show up somewhere, people make a big
kind of scene. They’ll look…they’ll be onlookers
and they’ll take videos of it and kind of
be like this silent crowd in the background,
and this happened when, you know, we were
arguing with the taxi driver, and of course
created a massive crowd when I hit him. So,
the entire crowd, the entire time, was cheering
on my wife. They were, am I right, they were
like, yeah, like, you can’t hit a woman, mess
this guy up, right, and then, as soon as I
hit the dude, they were actually…they began
to cheer even more. They’re like, hell yeah,
like, finally got some justice, but within,
I would say, 30 seconds of me hitting the
taxi driver, the kind of position or the opinion
of the crowd completely and utterly changed,
and it went from, yeah, protect your wife,
to, hey, foreigners can’t hit us Chinese people,
and it was scary and I know what kind of situation
this was about to turn into because mob violence
and mob mentality is very common in mainland
China. So I’m like, shit, like, we need to
sort this out. So, we went into the apartment
complex which is actually, like, government
property and the security guards were obviously
on my side. They’re like, you need to stay
back, you guys need to get out of here before
the crowd turns on you, because people have
been beaten to death over stuff like this.
So, long story short, the cops show up and
we all get into the cop car. Vivi was in there,
the dude was in the cop car, I was in the
cop car, and then her parents showed up as
well, and on the way to the police station,
my brain is racking. I’m like, what is actually
going to…what’s going to transpire here?
What’s going to come out of this, and although
you may think I was in the right in this situation,
this is how I ended up in a Chinese police
station holding cell. I had never seen, like,
Chinese police officers, like, interacting
with each other but I feel like they could
have their own TV show. They all had their
own, like, little personalities and stuff,
and they were all eating, like, shrimp. I
remember they were eating, like, shrimp congee
or something, and I got to see the inner workings
of a Chinese police station in jail because,
at least the people they just caught, because,
you know, they would bring a criminal in and
they would kind of make them confess to what
they did and get all their information, and
then I’d be able to listen in on these conversations.
So, here I was, like, next to all these, like,
criminals basically, and everyone that wasn’t
local that committed a crime, they were shit.
Like, they…if they found out you’re from,
like, a different town or a different province,
man, your punishment wasn’t light, and the
most common thing that I saw people going
in there was for, like, putting illegal stickers
on the walls. So, basically, when you walk
around, on the walls in China, they’ll have,
like, stickers that will say you can buy fake
receipts here, you can buy counterfeit this
or whatever, like, illegal stuff, and the
people that get sent out to put those stickers
up, they’re not really criminals. I mean,
they’re just kids getting paid to do stuff,
but, man, they beat the shit out of you. They
were like, hang him. They use this word, hang
him. They basically take the dude and they
brought him upstairs and they hang him by
his hands and they just beat the frick out
of him with, like, a metal rod and you hear
him screaming and stuff up there because he
won’t admit to what he did. There was other
people that were caught for prostitution and
stuff. Long story short, me and Vivi are in
there and I’m, like, shitting myself because
I’m like what the hell did I do wrong, but
I’m listening to the conversation and the
guy claims that he was in the right, and the
police officers ended up kind of taking his
side because I was a foreigner that drew blood
and punched the dude.
Vivi: See, here’s the thing. That dude even
say, like, you tie him up, I beat him up.
That was the story, but the thing is the police
not going to believe him.
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: But the problem is you draw blood so
that’s why it’s the bad case. I said because
that dude hurt me, but the problem is that
dude is too weak to the point I didn’t have
any mark, so…but he had blood. So, in that
scenario he’s way more, like, severe.
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: So…but it’s really with, like, a foreigner
so they also don’t…
Matthew: It becomes a big deal.
Vivi: Yeah. So, they don’t want to…normally,
they would let us go.
Matthew: Of course. Nothing would have happened.
Vivi: If you were Chinese, they would just
let you go.
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: But…and he said, like, even if…even
the cop told me that if you are not foreigner,
after they get out, you can beat the crap
out of him.
Matthew: Yeah, I’m allowed to…
Vivi: Yeah.
Matthew: …because the guy was such a pain
in the ass.
Vivi: Yeah. And then…
Matthew: They’re like…this taxi driver
Vivi: Yeah, and the problem is because you
are foreigner, they don’t…actually, the
cop was saying, like, they don’t want to
mark anything on you.
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: So, at the end
of the day, we need to pay for his medical
Matthew: Yeah. It was, like, a thousand dollars.
Vivi: Which is okay.
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: claiming that he wants 100,000 RMB.
Matthew: Yeah. He wanted, like, US$20,000
or something like 15,000.
Vivi: Yeah, and then my uncle showed up, said,
like, I will give you the money but if you
get the money, you’re not going to able
to have this time to spend.
Matthew: Yeah. So, her uncle shows up. I don’t
know what this guy does, by the way, but he
basically dropped some names and this guy’s
taxi driver friends show up to support him
in the police station and they all bolt. They
all run away and I’m like, what did your uncle
Vivi: Anyway, let’s go back to the story.
Because he thinking he couldn’t get anything
out it, he decided to inject all the IV for
him so we can pay more.
Matthew: Yeah. So, he wanted to take advantage.
He’s like, give me the works, and they strap
up all these bags of IVs at the hospital to
him and he’s puking his guts outside because
he’s so sick from all this random medicine.
He got antibiotics and stuff
Vivi: Yeah. All the thing. My dad said, like,
he literally inject more than 4 or 5 IV in
the same time, just puking everywhere. Anway,
the main point I was trying to prove is, first
of all, the person, if they get a little bit
injured, they will over exaggerate what happened.
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: Try to scam the crap out of you. They
try to get the…get as many as help as they
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: If you are foreigner alone, stay away
from the situation…
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: …as fast as you can.
Matthew: Not only will you get, potentially,
get scammed for a lot of money but also, legally,
very bad consequences. Look at Wendell Brown.
Vivi: They can’t support you.
They…even the cops, like, they, you know,
they will ask for the crowd…
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: …for everything. It’s not…everything
is not exactly run like how the western country
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: The lucky thing is because I’m the local
there, I have the connection, so at the end
of the…
Matthew: That’s not always going to be the
Vivi: Yeah, but that’s not…everyone is
not that lucky. At the end of the day, like,
they end up, like, making me sign a thing
is, like, I say I beat him up…
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: …and I draw the blood on him, which
everyone know that’s not going to be the truth.
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: But that’s how we keep him stay out
of the record was saying, like, he hurting
Chinese people or blah, blah, blah…
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: …all those kind of thing. So, one
suggestion, seriously, really serious suggestion,
if you see any crowd, if you saw any person
get hurt, I’m not suggesting you try to be
a bad foreigner that, like, not helping, stay
away from any trouble.
Matthew: Do not help. Do not help people if
they’re hurt because they will potentially
use you to get money, and, number two, avoid
any situation where you could potentially
get in a fight because, look at Wendell Brown,
the NFL player, defended himself and his girlfriend
at the bar. No one got hurt. 4 years in jail.
Vivi: If you see any crowd start to have…if
you see anything start to have a crowd, stay
Matthew: Right.
Vivi: Stay away. Run the heck out of there.
Matthew: Seriously.
Vivi: I know the fact thing is that the Chinese
people are saying like you don’t teach foreigner
to do that. That’s so…it’s such an insult
for our China and blah, blah, blah, those
kind of thing, but that’s the truth. If you’re
trying to come here, stay away from any trouble,
any crowd, because probably you will be the
Matthew: It’ll turn on you.
Vivi: Like, I don’t want to just, like, shit
on my country but that is the truth.
Matthew: It’s mob mentality and, like, just
for a really bad example to kind of finish
this off, I mean, look at the Pakistani guy
with his Chinese girlfriend. If he had gotten
out of there and didn’t argue with the dude
that was angry at him for being with a Chinese
girl, he would have been…he’d be alive right
now, but he had to continue arguing and get
in a fight and then he ended up dying, getting
stabbed. So, that’s, I mean, that’s just what
happens. So, avoid any altercation, seriously,
and if you can learn anything from my story,
it’s either make local connections or just
don’t get in trouble. Don’t punch little
tiny taxi drivers.
Vivi: So, even me and him’s joke is like
if you want to punch, need to be tiny now.
Matthew: Every time I’ve got in a fight in
Asia, it’s always been with very tiny old
man. I’m sorry, guys.
Vivi: They’re like Chihuahua.
Matthew: Yeah. I think it’s the attitude problem.
Anyway, hope you guys enjoyed this video.
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because you know what? There’s a lot of stuff…oh
my…oh, are you going to scam me? I just
helped you.
Vivi: Like hundreds
of thousands of dollars.
Matthew: Well, all my money’s yours anyway.
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you so much, laowinners, and I’ll catch you…
Vivi: …on the next one.


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  2. The story doesn’t make sense!! Doesn’t your wife speak the same language as the taxi driver? And didn’t she explain to him in Chinese that she was getting the cash? And you were waiting behind with him while she went! But then he goes after her…and threatens her…and then slaps her!!! Doesn’t make sense…unless, he summed up the opportunity to get some compensation money, and played you! Threatening your wife and slapping her..knowing you would react..and physically assault him!! That’s why he dropped to the ground so easily!! Sounds like he played you the whole way…until the Uncle stepped in! How much compensation did he/ or was hoping to get from you lmao?

  3. I'd like to see the "face" culture of China meet the "face" culture of Thailand. Muay Thai's quite something, and an alarming fraction of Thais are quite adept.

  4. 8:05 When hearing how lightly you talked about this, my respect for you got a big jump up, this is how i am to, and there is so few who have the guts to talk like that in public, because they are so afraid someone will think they are to macho!

  5. Great story laowhy – I had a similar experience with my Vietnamese wife, only it was in the United States. This video explains Serpentza's video titled "China LACKS good Samaritan's and its TERRIBLE" — nobody wants to get involved because they know in the end they will be the one in trouble even when they are doing the right thing trying to help or protect somebody. Dumb governments & laws all over the world!!!!

  6. Is this why things like kung-fu and wing-chun exists? Because you fight people without them getting hurt, and you can physically defuse situations easily.

  7. My respect for you just increased 70% for that story. It appears there is still some American left in you after all those years in China after all. Protect your wife and child no matter what, no f*cks given. That's what men do, well, most men anyway. Good video!

  8. Sigh. Your incredibly lucky you have a mafia-uncle lol or you’d be in a horrible situation. You were being bullied!
    It just doesn’t seem the ideal place to raise your child when the only way to make your way up is by connections. And the way they indoctrinate you from such a young age too.. but I’m sure you know what your doing and heavily supervising your kid. Just like Serpentza said, they taught kindergartens that Japanese are bad people. Just doesn’t seem the best education. I’ve been really sucking information from your videos

  9. They are doing everything to get back at us ,they say they are rich let them pay, stay out of China ,love your own people. Go places where you know you are safe.

  10. Sounds to me like you were scammed. The taxis driver got a bloody nose or a cut lip but he also got a big payday! Probably planned it all along and probably not the first time he has done it, nor the last.

  11. That was cool, but you guys have a lot of haters and you should be very careful, like you said? The mob mentality. Keep up your great videos!! 👍😉🇺🇸🇵🇷🎶

  12. Went to Japan , Guam , and Philippines. Never had an issue with the cops. They would not really make eye contact. But being 6' 8" 290lbs covered in tatt's , It was more like they did not want to get to close to this freak show

  13. Old TV show: Barney Miller, about a police station. That could be a hit Chinese TV show, the Chinese version of Barney Miller.

  14. I grew up in Hawaii and as a hated "haole" I know all about this shut. BUT… I plan to retire back there because I've got 3 aces up my sleeve: (1) a sister married to a prominent lawyer. (2) a sister married to a police chief (3) I've become a follower of a variant of Buddhism that's big in Hawaii with the biggest power bloc, Japanese.

  15. Obviously women need to start the “me too” movement, yea I know it’s communist but they gotta start somewhere.

  16. 真希望西方多些你这样的无知的人。想想未来有一天看到你们惊恐的样子,真的很搞笑

  17. I knew a foreign student in college from Beijing I think. Anyway, in the same sentence he says, "Mao good guy, Hitler good guy too." I'm Jewish btw and speak Mandarin and he had a Jewish roommate as well. What I took this to mean; since I learned later that even if a Chinese student is in the US, they can be punished for saying bad things about China(but who would even know since we were in an apartment and this was way b4 cell phones), is he was trying to compare Mao to Hitler and I was supposed to read b/w the lines. I mean, Mao? a great guy, mmhmmm

  18. The more I watch your videos the more I’m starting hate China lol they all seem very Uncivilised people so much wrong

  19. I married Chinese lady that was the biggest mistake in mylife they just want suck u dry they so careless people and selfish people

  20. As I understand the story I think he saw you as a foreigner and thought maybe you have a lot of money so he planned you will exit the taxi to get his fare money and then he will confront you and you’ll punch him but then he only got 1000 usd for the hospital money. Many Chinese people have a very wrong sense of justice sometimes. They only care about money and they are completely selfish to others especially foreigners. I drove a taxi and the guy was driving slow on purpose like bicycle speed just in order to get the meter running to the point when it was ridiculous and I kept telling him that he is doing that on purpose but he didn’t care and drove me to the taxi station where his friends are at in an isolated place under some bridge so I couldn’t escape paying. So finally I exited the taxi and walked away and paid him only around twenty percent worth of his worthless drive there(he was driving in circles on purpose and my destination was the central bus station that everyone in town knows where it is..) conclusion is: Chinese people many of them are stupid and also have a crooked behavior and they can get you in trouble very fast even if you are a straight ordinary person. They just don’t care. They are selfish and greedy. Young western people could be totally shocked from all this. This guy in the video had his hair turn gray because of all the shit he had to endure. Just stay out of trouble and when the trouble come don’t go down with it and learn to give up like I do. The only time you raise your hands is when you are in real danger which is very rare. So take it easy. On the other hand some Chinese if they open their hearts to you then you find out they can be so kind and generous and give you so much even though you are a stranger. Like every country most people are selfish but there’s always a major group that is good and kind. In the west countries the sense of moral justice seems very absolute but actually people aren’t opening up to non friends or family and can be very cold but in China there’s at least freedom to the heart, just be good and nice to people and you will get love back.

  21. the best thing to do is to stay away from china and Chinese people. china doesn't have anything that a china town in your local foreign city doesn't have. while there might be a few decent Chinese around, 90% of the local populous are absolute heartless creatures. everything from helping an old women and her suing you for 10s of thousands to scamming cab drivers or mothers throwing there kids in front of cars for the cash. after you get through the honeymoon stage , china is a horrible place to live with horrible locals.

  22. 中国人在中共统治下,思想是极其奇葩的,无法用文明社会的准则去理解很多中国人的行为。

  23. Hard to believe this isn't fake news considering you or your wife could have easily paid the driver on WeChat or Alipay. You're paid actors.

  24. Yeah looks like a lot of scammers out there on the mainland. Lots of poor people living the dream. If they had lawyers there they could defend you better but I heard they have no real legal systems there just kangaroo courts.

  25. Well, wasn't Adolf Hitler and the Snotzi Party an ally of China during that period? So I don't see why the attitude towards Hitler would have changed too much… not to mention the fact that the CCP is basically quite similar to the Snotzi political party in more ways than not. Hitler was a dictator. The CCP is a dictatorship. Hitler murdered millions of people. The CCP has some of the harshest criminal penalties in the world… next to the UAE. The list goes on and on.

  26. You are a mangina raised by your mother. It is so obvious. And you think your witch wife loves you, lmfao. Wake up, dude. Women do not love men. Yours is no exception. I can see it in her eyes and expressions. You are alone yet you think she is with you. Take the red pill. Don't white knight. It's pathetic.

  27. CHINESE are always the VICTIM. Always, especially when THEY ATTACK. If it was the OPPOSITE, white guy slaps a woman and they gets punched, cops would not do anything. Remember folks, "the RULE OF RAW." You should find the taxi driver and extort him back 10x. Welcome to civilization.

  28. i watched the movie, “Crazy Rich Asian” today – I no longer want to visit China. Thank you, I look different in Europe & people stared at me. On New Year’s celebration, I covered my face because everybody was so drunk, shooting off their home made fireworks.

  29. Look how the Chinese treat their own: run them over with tanks, work to death in town sized factories with bars on all the windows and doors, murder female babies, turn criminal gangs on innocents that protest in Hong Kong as an excuse for martial law, harvest organs from prisoners, the list is endless. I love Chinese people, married one, but hate communism in all it’s forms as it is an elitist predator

  30. I worry about you two, China just jailed a YouTuber for 12 years because he was posting bad things about China, please be careful, those people are all spies.

  31. This video is proof that everywhere has its own issues. This is what I really had believed of Asians that there are, No crime, No lies, No stealing, 100% honesty, 100% safety, 100% loyalty. This is the perception I am thought from TV and see of Asians that they are perfect.

  32. i dont blame the chinese for being racist, we know their country is a hellhole. You knowing what a backwards place it is and still going to live there is what makes me question things. in a way you're well aware how ignorant Chinese people are and you parade their backwards culture around on here for your western audience to gawk at. You're essentially exploiting these zoo animals for your living. I hope one of those racist chinese stabs you good the next time you try to be a hero.

  33. do you have any idea if a person has no passport and detained in detention center in china ??? what will happen to that person inside the detention center ???

  34. Loved your video. Will be watching more and liking them. You guys are great. I loved hearing from your wife as well.

  35. Winston talked about how he would break up fights and as a foreigner he was good because the rules applied to him differently WTH

  36. I wish a had only $1. for each "like" that was said, I would have more money than there are Chinese people. Damn, that really "LIKE" is "LIKE" annoying, "LIKE" do you "LIKE" know what I "LIKE" mean? Teaching Chinese people to "LIKE" say like every other word is "LIKE" annoying. Don't you "LIKE" get it?
    I like your video, otherwise. (that would an example of the proper use of the word)

  37. Lived in Beijing for 3 years, never felt intimidated once, I love the Chinese they are a friendly bunch. Just stay away from drunk Chinese…

  38. You did what any man with a pair of balls would do!! I dont care what country im in, if a man slaps my wife in the face im kicking his ass!!!

  39. Hey China, I'm calling you out, It is not o'k to hit a woman, ever. And if a person gets hit for hitting a woman, then, so be it. I do forgive all people. But, At That point, a lesson needs to be learned sometimes. Not all the time, but sometimes.

    I do not call out for any violence, period, but i do call out for protection for others.

  40. I agree with all of this video other than blaming the Pakistani guy for getting stabbed towards the end. You can't say anything is someone's fault when they are met with a lunatic, please be considerate.

    Never blame a victim, that's what people do to justify bad ideologies. The fault is 100% on the man with the knife.

  41. Alot of them have mental problems an they are to ashame to get help ….They feel it will shame there families so alot of these mental cases are walking around in China by the MILLIONS…..VERY PRIMITIVE PEOPLE

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